How to Truly Love the Professional Athlete in Your Life

In today’s era, we hear all about athletes and
their accomplishments on and off the field or
court. We hear about their mistakes, cheating
scandals, multiple kids, and relationships. Rarely
do we take a moment to look at the positives of
the professional athlete. There are women dying
to get their hands on a professional athlete. They
come in herds with fresh bundles, pigeon toed
stances, and waist trainers on fleek. They are
dying to attract the attention of the professional
athlete. They see the glitz and glamour. They see
the money. They see the cars, but do they see the
long hours the professional athlete puts in to stay
on top? Do they see the ice baths and Epsom
water soaks? Do they see the pain and tears after
the loss of a game? Do they understand the
depression an athlete may endure by constantly
being away from their families?
There are some women who will be there for the
long run and some only there for the
championship game. Guys, what kind of woman
will you choose?
Let’s not forget the athletes attempting to go
pro? Are you mentally capable to love a man that
is being transparent and vulnerable? He is
attempting to go pro at probably an age that is
NOT his prime. Are you ready?
The professional athlete is competitive, ambitious,
and motivated. However, there are some
professional athletes that are depressed, tired,
and weary. Skin tight dresses and bundles can
only warm their hearts for so long, So, how can
one truly love the professional athlete?
1. You have to understand that he will need
Encouragement and Unconditional Love, Minus
the Games.
An athlete will have to deal with losses, time
away from home/families, and injuries. Are you
mentally prepared to handle the setbacks? Are
you financially educated enough to handle the
home and/or kids while he is away? Are you able
to deal with attitude/tears after the loss of a
game?
These are just examples. In order to truly love the
professional athlete in your life, you will need to
be his constant peace. You will need to always
offer encouragement and support. You will need
to sacrifice your own time in order to provide
peace over his heart and life. Sounds simple, but
it isn’t easy.
He doesn’t want to hear you complain about him
going to another practice and missing time away
from you. His athleticism is his money maker.
When he marries, he is still a professional athlete.
He will still need encouragement, support, and
unconditional love. He will definitely not need the
nagging.
2. Cook for him when he is home
Athletes are on the road majority of the time.
Greet him with a healthy home cooked meal. You
know your mom wasn’t lying when they say the
way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. He
will definitely appreciate you. He will miss being
home and ultimately miss you.
3. Know that at any moment his career could be
over
Losing his career will be a blow. He may endure
an injury or get cut. However, what can you bring
to the table? How can you help him bounce back?
What other businesses can you help him start?
Always remember that One day he will get old, he
probably won’t be a KOBE in the game, but he
definitely will NEED his Vanessa in the long run.