finding your soul-mate

"So lately, iv heard a few friends say stuff
like "mehn im looking for a girlfriend so im
going out more / do u have a babe for
me? / oh im looking for this type of guy /
some even sliding into random dms based
on pictures on IG etc" All well and good but
you are more or less running in circles to
end up where u are now in time again.
We often forget that soulmates are blessings.
Most people in my generation are starting to
Panic at the realization of being single in this day
and age but heres the thing, do u want to date
(someone incompatible) based on looks or body
type only to end up single again? Or do u want to
find what is compatible with your heart and build
a future with? This is the starting point of the
journey... Deciding "WHAT" direction u are going..
Ill say tho its 2016 and we should all have had
enough PLAY time by now! The turn down for
what era should be behind you at this point in life
otherwise you're just not ready for reality.
Whats yours is yours and the only way to reach
your destiny and your soul mate is to Listen to
the direction God has for your life. He knows who
is ment for you, he created both of you therefore
YOU CAN NEVER know better than him.
We all need to WORK on our selves, OUR lives,
OUR bad habits, our Morals, OUR self control and
Most importantly Our spiritual life and
Relationship With God and then we may be ready
to receive the blessing Gods been keeping in store
for us because we were not ready to manage it in
our old form and ways. Dont forget you cant
actively go in-search of a spouse, God delivers
your significant other to u. He puts both of u at
the right place at the right time and THEN you
receive ur blessing so WORK ON YOU and it
would all fall into place!