Critics blast Nigerian Lesbian mum-to-be who tricked a man into getting her pregnant

Matt O’Connor, founder of Fathers For Justice
says a child needs a mother AND a father in their
life.
He said:
And it is a fundamental human right that a
child has access to their father. It is sad
that anyone wants to bring a baby into the
world in the knowledge that they are
denying them access to half of their family.
It isn’t just the dad who loses out but also
the paternal grandmother and grandfather.
Unfortunately, women are stopping fathers
becoming involved in children’s lives more
and more with devastating consequences.
We would support this man in taking legal
action to gain access to his child.

30 year old Lesbian, Kafayat Adegoke who tricked
a man into getting her pregnant because she
didn't want to use a surrogate and couldn't afford
IVF but desperately wanted a child, has been
criticized by critics who think she is being selfish
by excluding the baby's Dad from its life.

Anne Diamond, a new agony aunt said:
Kafayat is showing she’s little more than a
child herself. She thinks having a baby is
all about her.
It’s not, it is always about the child who
will grow up questioning why he or she
hasn’t got a daddy.
It’s one thing to grow up fatherless
because he couldn’t, or didn’t want to be
around. Quite another to discover your
mother deliberately deprived you of a dad.
On top of that, it’s miserably unfair to the
unsuspecting men.
Stop it, Kafayat. Grow up before your
selfishness deprives your child of a decent
mother too.

Emma Kenny, a psychologist, therapist and
lecturer says Kafayat is a manipulator that has no
right to deny her baby a relationship with
its father
She said:
She has completely taken advantage of this
man. When a child is brought into this
world both a mother and father are of equal
importance.
She has tricked him and manipulated him
into answering questions to find out his
suitability for a process he didn’t even
know he was involved in.
Then to actually wish to exclude him,
basically branding him worthless, displays a
certain degree of narcissism. She is
denying the importance of men, revealing a
warped sense of her own self worth.
Not the best quality for a mother, it
suggests she’s willing to do whatever it
takes to get what she wants.
Children like to have a relationship with
their father. In denying him a part in the
child’s future, she’s making a decision for a
child who has a right to know who their
father is.
She doesn’t have the right to remove this
opportunity.
They are also trying to contact the man who got
Kafayat pregnant with the ad below:
Are you the daddy? Did you get Kafayat pregnant
or were you one of the other men? Email
features@sundaymirror.co.uk or call 0207
2933061.