My wife is constantly refusing me sex. a LIB.

A LIB reader writes in;




We have been married for 10 years and
have 3 kids. I trained her for her last 3
years in the university before we got
married. I did all the spending for our
marriage ceremony and gave her a Job
also in the banking industry before she
lost her job 3 years later during the melt
down in the banking sector. She now
working with a service provider company
with a salary a little above
=N=102,000.00 monthly.
I provide all that is needed to run the family
without asking her for a penny till 9 months ago
after I did a job with a government agency which
my payment was delayed for 9 months. Before
the delay of my payment, I take the responsibly
of her parents up keep.
Within the stressful nine months for me, I told
her we needed to put heads together for the up
keep of the family. For the 1st time in our
marriage, we both contributed for the house rent
and also made her pay for the children school
fees totaling =N= 162,000.00. All these didn’t go
down well with her.
With time she started disrespecting me and even
talks any how to me, she wakes up in the
morning not greeting me, goes out not informing
me and she constantly refusing sex. We are
always having quarrels here & there and I had
slapped her on two occasions out of extreme
annoyance. Later I begged for forgiveness for
slapping her.
I had sat her down on many occasions to talk;
her issue is that she feels I’m not doing enough
to provide for the house again and also not
doing enough to get my payments. She told me
if need be, let me borrow. She doesn’t like the
fact that she is brings money. So she puts all
kind of attitudes towards me. She kept telling
her friends and family negative things about me.
Her parents stop calling me because I no longer
have to give them but the speck with her daily
and never asked how I’m doing. I know these
because I sit close to her when they call. They
ask only about the kids. But it’s well.
When she is back from work daily, she start
chatting with friends, she doesn’t talk to me, she
deletes her chats on her phone immediately and
when she is about going to bed, she offs her
underwear drop it in the launder basket and go
to bed. On a close watch, I found out that her
underwear is freshly always wet anytime after
the chats.
Her attitude towards sex has been nothing to
write home about, this has also caused several
quarrels at night, I practically have to beg her for
sex and still no result. This terrible situation has
caused me to masturbate on several occasions
even before her in bed.
My patience over her sex state is expiring and I
am at the brinks of searching for a mistress or
more accommodating lady. She claims she does
not find me attracted again. This is really
affecting, I see myself getting close to another
marriage. I will not want to inform her parents
before taken this step. I want to believe she
married because I was able. Now I have just
been paid my outstanding money by government
a week ago but she does not know.
What do I do please